Test 2-The future self goal that was making everything worse
May 20, 2026
The version of your future self you've been working toward might not actually be yours. Here's how socialization hijacks the vision, and what to do instead.
A few weeks ago, a Facebook memory landed in my feed.
It was a post from 2017. A photo of me, shoulder up. Smiling. Professional. Controlled.
I remembered exactly why I framed it that way.
I was at the start of my intuitive eating journey, and my body had been regaining the weight I had lost from my very last diet. I was convinced that if anyone saw my "full view" body, they would never hire me as a health professional. So I invested in a professional background decor, an extended tripod and a new camera, all engineered so the angle never dropped below my shoulders. I was building an online presence and hiding a body at the same time.
The version of your future self you've been working toward might not actually be yours. Here's how socialization hijacks the vision, and what to do instead.
A few weeks ago, a Facebook memory landed in my feed.
It was a post from 2017. A photo of me, shoulder up. Smiling. Professional. Controlled.
I remembered exactly why I framed it that way.
I was at the start of my intuitive eating journey,...
The version of your future self you've been working toward might not actually be yours. Here's how socialization hijacks the vision, and what to do instead.
A few weeks ago, a Facebook memory landed in my feed.
It was a post from 2017. A photo of me, shoulder up. Smiling. Professional. Controlled.
I remembered exactly why I framed it that way.
I was at the start of my intuitive eating journey,...
The version of your future self you've been working toward might not actually be yours. Here's how socialization hijacks the vision, and what to do instead.
A few weeks ago, a Facebook memory landed in my feed.
It was a post from 2017. A photo of me, shoulder up. Smiling. Professional. Controlled.
I remembered exactly why I framed it that way.
I was at the start of my intuitive eating journey,...
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