Stephanie Dodier | Beyond The Food
The Body Acceptance Challenge
Feel confident in the body you have now, and in every version that comes after it.
Positive thinking got you to feel better about your growing body. The dissatisfaction never fully went away, but it went quiet: low-grade, manageable, and you got on with your life. Then your body started changing with age.
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So what do you do the morning you catch your reflection in the bathroom mirror, see your mother's face, and all the old stories about your body come right back, along with the discomfort and the shame?
You read the books, listened to the podcasts, followed the body-positive accounts, and told yourself the right things. And since your body started changing, the anti-aging foundation, the Botox appointment your friend keeps mentioning, and the hunt for the right supplement or hormonal balance haven't touched it either.
That's not a you problem.
The truth is…
Here's why it hasn't worked.
1
Positive thinking was a Band-Aid.
It felt better, until it didn't. It covered the belief that your appearance says something about your worth, and never took it out.
2
The body ideal for women isn't only thin. It's young.
So aging presses on the very same belief, and everything you thought was handled comes back, compounded.
3
Every piece of menopause advice still treats your body as the problem.
The experts, the protocols, the products all aim at fixing what's changing, which quietly proves the old belief right: this body needs fixing.
And it gets worse
It's like a splinter under the skin.
You can put antibiotic cream and a Band-Aid on it, and for a while it looks fine. But as long as the splinter is in there, the infection keeps going, and sometimes it spreads.
The splinter is the belief that your appearance says something about your worth.
None of this means you failed. It means you were handed the wrong tool. You've already done the hard part: you know what you want to believe about your body. You're closer than you think.
You're going to need:
I'm 51. I spent 25 years inside diet culture trying to shrink my body. I've spent the last 10 years getting out of it, and the same 10 years coaching more than 1,000 women through it. Here's what I discovered:
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Your changing body was never the problem. What you believe about it is.
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And beliefs don't change with nicer thoughts. They change with thought work.
Picture getting dressed on a Tuesday. You catch your reflection, the old thought shows up, and this time you know what to do with it. You ladder to a thought you believe, let the discomfort pass, and walk out the door in what you put on. That's how I live in my 51-year-old body now, and it's what this challenge teaches you.
Introducing
The Body Acceptance Challenge
Four weeks to learn one tool for feeling confident in a body that's changing with age, without trying to fix it.
How it works
The Body Acceptance Challenge is a 4-week, self-paced challenge. You join directly, no application, no call.
Three times a week you get a short lesson, under 15 minutes, in audio or video, with one practical exercise.
We start together on a live orientation call on November 13. Twice during the challenge, on November 24 and December 2, you can send me your questions, anonymously if you like, and I answer them in an audio recording shared with the whole group. You keep access to everything, so you can go at your own pace.
Is this challenge for you?
This is for you if
This is not for you if
The challenge is built on three pillars
01
One tool: Thought Work
Positive thinking covers the belief. Thought work removes it. Rooted in cognitive behavior coaching, Thought Work is the self-coaching version. You learn it over 4 weeks. You can use any thought about your body, size or age.
Not another affirmation. A tool you use in the moment the thought shows up that will change your belief system.
02
Short lessons that fit your life
Changing a thought pattern and belief happens you practice the tool in real life, when you brush your teeth in front of the bathroom mirror, when you see a picture of yourself on your phone and in the store window, not in a three-hour workshop or a 84 minutes podcast interview.
You don't need to clear an evening. You need fifteen minutes.
03
Practice in real life
A tool only works if you use it where the thoughts actually show up. So every lesson ends with one practical exercise you do in your day: at the mirror, getting dressed, catching your reflection in a store window.
Not homework. Practice in the moments that are already there.
What else is included
Live orientation with me
November 13, noon to 1pm Eastern
Because starting is the hardest part, we begin together, On November 13 at noon est so you know exactly what to do in week 1. Recorded if you can't make it.
Your questions, answered by me. Twice.
November 24 and December 2
Send me your questions, anonymously if you like. I answer them in an audio recording shared with the whole group, so you hear the answers to everyone's questions, not just your own.Â
Access that outlasts the four weeks
Yours to keep
The thoughts don't stop on December 11, so you keep every lesson and every recording, to come back to whenever your body changes next.
Your guide
Hi, I'm Stephanie Dodier
Clinical Nutritionist, Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, Cognitive Behavior Coach.
For 25 years I dieted and hated my body. My first Weight Watchers meeting was at 12. Then, 10 years ago, someone handed me a book called Health at Every Size, and it changed my life. I stopped trying to shrink my body and started working on what I believed about it.
Today I'm 51. I live in a fat body, I'm in menopause, and I show my aging openly. The pressure to look younger doesn't skip me. I use thought work on it every day, and it's what I teach.
Since 2016 I've hosted It's Beyond The Food, a top 1% podcast with over 1.4 million downloads. In 2020 I founded the Non-Diet Coaching Certification, where I train health professionals in my method.
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What women are saying
"I'm at peace now."
"It's such a different, completely different relationship with my body and my life overall. I'm present in my life, my partner and my kids. I'm at peace now."
Montserrat Lopez
"I can be happy right NOW!"
"For the first time, I'm free to enjoy life! Each lesson has been like turning stones, discovering new parts of myself that have been hidden and suppressed by years of negative thinking, and self-judgment. It has helped me experience much insight, the biggest of which was that I can be happy right NOW!"
Jessica Tomasko
"I see a different life ahead of me, one that doesn't involve the constant shaming of my body."
"As a 40 year old woman, who started dieting at the tender age of 7, self-coaching has allowed me to see it all differently. I see women in the 60's still operating in the same framework as I have been operating in for over 30 years, and I am so extremely grateful I found this pathway to break free. I see a different life ahead of me, one that doesn't involve the constant shaming of my body. I finally realised, it isn't serving me to live like this. And I finally found a way out."
Angie S.
"I'm living a more joyful life."
"I have avoided criticism my whole life but now I truly look forward to new insights because with each one I am gaining ground and living a more joyful life."
Susan Sledge
Questions women ask me
What is the Body Acceptance Challenge?
Does this work for aging, or only for my size?
Is any of it live?
How much time does it take?
Will this fix my relationship with my body completely?
I've bought programs before and not finished them. Will this be different?
What if I fall behind?
More questions?
Ready to take the splinter out?
If you know what you should be thinking about your body and still don't believe it…
If aging brought back stories you thought were behind you…
If you want one tool, not one more Band-Aid…
Join the Body Acceptance Challenge.
$297.
Four weeks, starting November 13.
Join the waitlist now , and on November 4 you get 24 hours to join for $50 off. From November 5 to 12, enrollment is open to everyone. The day you join, you get your access and everything you need for the orientation call.